Four telltale signs your coworker doesnt like you

Four telltale signs your coworker doesnt like youFour telltale signs your coworker doesnt like youSometimes, its abundantly clear that someone at work doesnt like you. But if youre having trouble deciphering the potential signs, heres a guide.While you can never be 100% sure how a coworker feels about you unless you ask them, chances are they might act a certain way. So, whether youre the employee or the boss, heres what to look out for.Buckle up.Their eyes almost never meet yoursSound familiar?Follow Ladders on FlipboardFollow Ladders magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and moreLynn Taylor, a workdistributions-mix expert and the author of Tame Your Terrible bro Tyrant How to Manage Childish Boss Behavior and Thrive in Your Job,told Business Insiderexplains why this can be a warning sign.She says that its tough for someone to make eye contact with someone theyre not a fan of because theyre afraid that you may be able to detect host ility, so the path of least resistance is for them to look away or avoid being around you wherever possible.They make it obvious they just dont careJennifer Winter(now Jennifer DeRome), a content strategist, writer and relationship manager, writes in The Muse that one of the ways you can tell that your employees dont think youre doing a good job is that they dont play by the rulesAs a manager, you might not always be considered a friend, but how well your team adheres to the rules - both yours and the companys - is a great indicator of how well youre doing your job. On the other hand, when your team isnt worried about the consequences of skirting the rules, that also means they arent particularly worried about what you think - and thats a dangerous place to be as a manager. Your team may not always like you, but they definitely should be concerned with what you think and the consequences youll enforce if they arent working within the guidelines you or the company have set.They as k you way too many questions - and single you outReuben Yonatan, founder and CEO of cloud communication advisor GetVoIP, features an infographicand writes that one of the ways you can tell a coworker isnt fond of you is if they constantly question you.Its normal to question colleagues occasionally, but if you notice that your coworker questions every decision you make (and rarely questions anyone else), its a sign that they dont trust you, Yonatan says.They never maketime for youThis just isnt fair.Alison Green, author of the Ask a Manager blog, writes on Daily Worth that if you cant get your managers attention its a clue that they may not like you.Your boss regularly cancels your meetings, forgets to return your calls and emails, and generally doesnt seem to have you anywhere on her priority list, Green writes.This article was originally published on March 14, 2018.